You’ve done the work. You're self-aware. You know what you deserve. And yet...
You keep ending up in the same kind of relationship.
Different person. Same story.
It’s not a coincidence.
It’s a pattern.
Most people think they’re just choosing the wrong partners.
They’re not.
They have unconscious patterns—shaped by past experiences—that are quietly running the show.
Until you see the pattern, you can’t change it.
That’s exactly what this quiz is designed to reveal.
What Is a Love Allergy?
A Love Allergy is an unconscious pattern that pulls you toward relationships that feel familiar—but aren’t actually good for you.
It’s why you can know better… and still end up in the same kind of dynamic.
The Quiz is...
Created by licensed therapist and relationship expert, Jessica Canty, this work is rooted in trauma-informed psychology—not surface-level dating advice.
This is about understanding why you choose what you choose…
and how to finally choose differently.

